If The Glass Slipper Fits

This morning I got on the freeway directly behind a Ford Taurus sporting a hot pink Disney license plate cover that read, “Looking for…Prince Charming!”

This got me thinking not only about how badly hot pink clashes with the rusted teal of Ford Taurus sedans (or about how anyone old enough to drive should be too old to sport Disney princesses anywhere on their personal belongings), but also about how unfitting that statement is for single women of America today.

Why? Because the 20-something women of today are not looking for Prince Charming. They are looking for Disney’s Bad Guy. They are tossing out Happily Ever After in favor of the full-sensory scrapes and bruises garnered in the Big Bad World. But the classic Disney movies were made in the days before pierced and tattooed Generation X, so they could not account for Princess 2006 and how her life would really turn out.

Princess 1950 knew she deserved to be treated like a princess and could fully expect Prince Charming to come sweep her off her feet and carry her off into the sunset on a white horse.

But Princess 2006 grew up in an Internet frenzied mish-mash of too much choice and not enough fairy dust.

She drives a sports car, goes clubbing with her girlfriends on the weekends, and has (gasp) premarital relations. Princess 2006 is not looking for you, Prince Charming--working in her office IT department and putting a nice deposit down on a fixer-upper in a residential neighborhood. This 20-something Princess likes the fast lane and she is quite happy getting all of the Trouble out of her system before she is locked into Cinderella’s life with a ring on her finger.

And Trouble comes in the form of a smoldering hunk of a man sporting 3-day stubble and a wrinkled Hanes t-shirt.

He is Prince Charming’s good-for-nothing cousin.

He most likely holds a couple of part-time jobs and prefers hitting the beach to Starbucks at 8 a.m. He knows he should open the door for you, but he just can’t seem to remember. And he would pick up the tab for dinner, but his wallet doesn’t fit in his board shorts. He is not your boyfriend because he is leaving his options open, and he’s leaving those options open with Snow White and Cinderella too.

And this is alright with Princess 2006? gasp the Disney execs. Is her Fairy Godmother M.I.A.?!

Well, for right now…yes. Because Trouble is exciting and fresh and fun and no frills. Trouble is edgy and hot and could stop traffic with his chiseled abs. But eventually, Princess 2006 will get tired of driving her own car and opening her own doors and dining in another joint with paper napkins and a drive-thru.

She will long for a moonlit ride in a pumpkin coach. And that Prince in IT has started to look, well, pretty Charming.

Gave up writing for Lent

I came home from a sushi dinner last night to find my fish floating upside down in his bowl. After learning of my decadent consumption of his relatives, I think he died of disgust.

Maybe this is God's way of telling me to give up seafood for Lent... or to stop buying pets on a whim.

Speaking of Lent, what have I given up? Smoking, actually. But it started a few weeks ago with a gnarly sinus infection. This lack of nicotine inhalation has actually been less traumatic than anticipated considering my throat is still fresh with what feels like razor blade nicks and a constant sewage spill. Gross with a capital G. But I digress.

Back to Lent: Forty days of giving up something that you do not really need to have anyway. Like in 4th Grade when I boldly gave up potato chips until Easter. Come that first Hot Dog Day in the Catholic school cafeteria, picture me reaching for the Doritos arguing: “Hey, these are tortilla chips, Sister!”

Lent sacrifices usually follow this formula:

a) You give up something you eat/drink/ingest
b) This is not your absolute favorite something to eat/drink/ingest
c) You do not depend on this something to survive the every day trauma of life

I ran a few scenarios through my head (and past my social advisors) to determine what I should personally give up for the big J.C. this year. Those scenarios went something like this…

I’ll Give Up Sweets…
But since there are only crumbs of the 2 boxes of Girl Scouts cookies left in the cupboard, and I have to keep a Food Diary to impress my personal trainer anyway, that would be too easy.

I’ll Give Up Coffee…
But that would just make my coworkers’ lives a living Hell from about 8am-noon, so that would not be very kind. And I am trying to win Employee of the Month, so caffeine is my ally on this one.

I’ll Give Up Alcohol…
But that is sadly the center of my social existence and the balance that keeps the pendulum from swinging too far to “bright-eyed and bushy tailed at 6 a.m.” And this would also cause my cocktailing shifts to turn quickly from Weekend Moonlighting into the 7th Circle.

So I have finally decided just to give up Sanity…but that could just be the lack of nicotine talking.